Swinging 101
Swinging, like most things you would expect rules, especially when it comes to parties and events. When we say rules don’t think of them as something strict, think of it as something that allows you and your partner to have a more enjoyable and safer experience while attending swinger’s parties and events.
Let’s have a look at what they are:
Swinger’s party or event timeliness – when attending any swinger’s party or events it is important that you and your partner arrive on time. Arriving “fashionably late” is not considered cool.
Swinger’s party or event invitations – when you are invited to parties or events it is always polite to reply by the RSPV date. This is because any party or event requires a bit of preparation and it is always nice for the host to know who and how many are attending so they can organize food, snacks, rooms, and beds.
Arriving at swinger’s party – It is considered by bad manners for either partner to arrive or leave alone at any party or event. So when you attend a swinger party arrive and leave with your partner.
Cleanliness at party and events – Those who are well groomed and clean are always popular then those who aren't at parties and events. Therefore, always shower and shaved before attending and make yours and other’s party experience enjoyable.
It is always nice to be prepared and take along any toiletries that you may need for the party or events such as towel and etc.
Swinger Party “Tickets” – We don’t mean the ticket to get into a party or the event, but what we mean by “tickets” is someone who attends a swinging party or event with another, just for the sake for getting that person into the party and has no intention of swinging. Never do such things as will for sure get you banned from any party or event.
Your rights’ to say “no” – Whenever you or your partner feels uninterested, uncomfortable, or for any other reason simply say “no thank you”. No reasons or explanation is required to be given. By doing so you are being polite with no hurt feelings.
Alcohol and Drugs – Many swinger’s parties and events are BYOB. Social drinking is consider okay, but know your body’s limit and only drink moderately. As for drugs, they are all prohibited from swinger parties.
Safe Sex at swinger’s parties – While STD's has never been a problem among swingers', safe sex is vast becoming more "important" in the swinging community. The uses of condoms are just common sense by many swingers. Those who are offended by the use of condoms are considered irresponsible and selfish.
Group Sex at parties – Most party and events will have a room set up just for group sex. If you, your partner and your swinging friends are looking for more privacy there are also rooms for that matter. Remember, the right to refuse still applies in this room.
As a party host – Good party host should anticipate the needs of their guest by having plenty of clean towels, wash cloths, and clean sheets on the beds available. Those who are good party host would give a tour of their house, showing the whereabouts of the bathrooms, bedrooms and explain what bedrooms are to be used for what activity to their guests.
The use of you favorite sex toy – all guest are most welcome to use their sex toys at any swinger’s party or events. The responsibility is back on you to ensure that your sex toys are always clean before and after each use. Also make sure that you use a condoms on them too.
